ain’t too proud to beg

Well gang, depending on your take on me, this is either a worthwhile effort, or some kind of rock-bottom for lack of self-awareness, or something in between. I figured it was worth figuring out by trying. As regular readers know, I live a cash-poor but fulfillment-rich life. Right at the moment, the cash-poor part of […]

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there you are

It’s a banal fact that human beings perceive a conflict between their desire to be individual and their desire to fit in comfortably within social groups. This tension is the source of the plots of, like, 75% of the young adult books ever written. Part of the expression of these conflicting desires can be seen […]

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still in love

Will Wilkinson has a short and sweet and lovely appreciation of old-school blogging up on his reborn personal blog. I dig it a lot, and I entirely endorse his point about writing and the self. Blogging has always been described as being egalitarian or democratizing in an entirely bullshit way. Maybe in, like, 2000 blogging […]

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smarm and the mob

I thought that this intervention into the sad, enraging Essay Anne Vanderbilt/Grantland saga was useful, in several ways. First, simply because Tom Scocca is a brilliant writer and a thoughtful guy. But second, because Scocca is the author of the smarm essay, and I think that interacts with this controversy in a useful way. Scocca […]

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finis

As an impossibly perfect coda to my recent argument about the impregnable social fortress of neoliberal brodudes, I leave you with this, a response to that wonderful George Scialabba interview I quoted from the other day.                                

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